Sunday, June 17, 2012

Female Foeticide: A burning issue




                                                     
Female foeticide witnesses a saga of broken hearts, promises, and deprivation of the women. Considered one of the major concerns, this practice is the result of degenerating society. After 1980, new developed ultra-sound machines enabled the people to confirm the foetus of a baby in womb. The Amniocentesis and ultra-sonography tests were originally invented for the detection of congenital abnormalities of the foetus, but now-a-days they are mis-used for knowing the sex of the foetus with the intention of aborting a female fetus. In the old days, female infanticide was in practice. In modern times, female foeticide has replaced female infanticide. But the fact remains the fact that females have always been denied birth since the very beginning of society.

Why?

Who is responsible?

When all the religions treat abortion as immortal, then where these atheists are coming from. Abortions due to some complications are permissible, but aborting a child on the grounds of inferior sex is highly condemned. Indian history has witnessed many religious riots and controversies. People of different castes and creeds don’t think alike. But the practice of female foeticide transcends all casts, religions, and communities.

The numbers of abortions arise out of society’s son preference or its brutal behavior with the woman, who has not produced a son. Moreover, unwanted girls have to face an organized parallel ill-treatment at their natal homes. They are neglected in the family and made captive.
Is it not a mental torture that an innocent lady has to face?

The growing demand for boys has shown a marked shrinking of conscience. We, the parents, should have a broader outlook. We, ourselves, give opportunity to the doctors to flourish their business. It’s our individual and collective responsibility to bring forth the changes in the society.
No doubt, the society favours males. The existing system deteriorates the social harmony and balance. The sufferers are the females.

According to 2011 census, the killing rate of unborn female children is 10, 00,000 a year. The situation worsens more. Haryana has got 808 girls, Maharashtra 908, Himachal 904 girls to 1000 boys. Rest of the states follows the same. Only Meghalaya has higher sex ratio of 972 girls to 1000 boys. Kerela outnumbers all states where 1058 women are there to 1000 men. The national average is 933 girls to 1000 boys.

India has quietly been into the horrors of female foeticide. The govt. of India actively enforces laws and punishments, but the sinners keep on accelerating the practice. In the opinion of Dr. Safder Mehdi (Prof. at King Saudi Uni. Riyadh), who conducted a survey of the Indians in Arab, revealed the Indian psyche. He comments, “After talking to the Indians here, I realize that they have generated a spirit of self-denigration. Their quest for boys is their necessity to get help from them in future. Girls are married off and boys earn for them. This is a firm belief. ”

Throughout human history woman has been adorned, respected, loved and worshipped. Then why this psychological transformation is going on. Why to force them to produce a son when it’s not in her hands. The sex of the unborn child depends on the chromosome of the father and our God.

All know that foeticide is punishable under section 315 of penal code with imprisonment of 5-10 years or fine, or with both, considering the seriousness of the case. But still our never ending craving drives us to the haphazard consequences.

We should come forward and condemn this practice. We don’t have to repent in our old age, but should be proud of ourselves. We have to build the nation. Let’s join hands and put an end to this evil practices.

Written by-
Jaspreet Kaur
IT FACULTY, NIMS

Attitute is Little Thing thats makes a Big Difference


Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be twins!”

He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, “I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?” Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.’ I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.”

“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested.

“Yes it is,” Jerry said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.”

I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body. I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Wanna see my scars?”

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” Jerry replied. “Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live.”

“Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked. Jerry continued, “The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, ‘He’s a dead man.’ I knew I needed to take action.”

“What did you do?” I asked.

“Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes,’ I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply… I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’ Over their laughter, I told them, ‘I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.”

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

Noida Institute of Management Studies (NIMS)